Are you trying to approach a girl without much success? Maybe you’ve attempted to approach a girl in the past, but you haven’t had much luck so far. You may have a poor approach, or you may just be making simple mistakes. Whatever it happens to be, if you follow the advice that we are about to share with you today, you should have no trouble making an approach from here on out.
In truth, if you use the information that we are about to share, you should find it much easier to approach women from now on. This does not need to be a difficult process. Just use what we share with you and all will be well.
With that in mind, let’s get into the nuts and bolts of these techniques…
Eye Contact Is Important
When approaching girls, it’s always best to maintain eye contact the entire time. This may seem difficult to do at first, because it’s a little bit uncomfortable looking someone directly in the eyes. But you’ll get used to it as you practice more and more with your approach.
Here’s the deal…
If you walk up to a girl and begin chatting her up, she is not going to respond very well if you cannot look her in the eye. She’s going to think you’re lame. She’s going to think you’re soft. She’s going to think you’re weak and she’s going to immediately lose interest in you, if she was ever interested in you at all.
If you’re looking for a surefire way to get shot down by a girl, avoid eye contact. But if you’re looking for a great way to make your chances at hooking up with her much better, then look her directly in the eye when talking to her at all times. Look into her soul, and let her know that you are really interested in her.
You need to have a demeanor of self-assurance and confidence. That’s what you get when looking a girl directly in the eye.
Approaching with a Smile Is Always an Excellent Benefit
The intensity of eye contact is always awesome, but walking up to a girl with a smile on your face is always going to brighten her day. But it is possible that you can screw this up.
Your smile has to actually be genuine. You cannot walk up to her with a big, phony grin on your face. She’s going to see right through you. She’s going to know that it’s fake. She’s going to hate you for it, because nobody wants to be presented with a fake smile.
When you look at her, make sure that your smile is genuine. If you really like this girl you should be happy to smile at her anyway. A fake smile will not impress anyone, but it will make a girl sad.
If you feel that you have to force this, then maybe this is not the best approach for you. But you really need to think about the girl for a moment as well. If this girl does not bring a smile to your lips, she might not be the right girl for you. So keep that in mind as well, and definitely approach with a real, genuine smile on your face the next time you try to talk to a girl.
What Kind of Tone of Voice Are You Using When Talking to Girls?
You may not know this, but your tone of voice also plays a major role in the success or failure of approaching a girl. If you approach her and act shy, and you’re talking really quiet and slow, she’s not going to be all that interested in you. She’s going to pity you maybe, but she’s not going to look at you as boyfriend material. She’s not going to look at you as the phenomenal one night stand that you hope she might see you as.
Here’s what you need to think about…
When approaching a girl, keep your tone light and playful. Do not try to act too tough and act like a jerk with a big, loud mouth. That’s not going to impress her either. And do not talk soft so that she can barely hear you.
You have to talk light and playfully. Have fun when talking to her and first meeting her. Let her know that you’re really interested in her and you’re looking to have a good time. Sometimes being overly flirtatious is a bad thing, so flirt but don’t lay it on too heavy.
Stay Away from Cheesy Pickup Lines
I saved this for the end because it’s so important to avoid this at all costs. If you really want to have this girl run away from you, then start using cheesy pickup lines.
Girls hate this stuff, and they really don’t find it impressive at all. They want a guy that’s genuine. They want a guy that really means what he says. They do not want to hear clichés and stupid lines that people use to try to get girls in bed. They want you to act like they mean more than just a one night stand.
It doesn’t matter if you’re only looking for a one night stand. Pretend that you want more if that’s the case, and avoid stupid and cheesy pickup lines as often as possible because they don’t work. They repel women instead.